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Wednesday
Jun122002

graduation







Today's Blatherpic: Jeff and Andrew last night, on the way to dinner at Ho Tsu. Andrew's in town visiting from California. I lust after his Clié.

Note from yesterday: My running shoe brand is Asics GT-2070 (nope, I had never heard of it either), since some of you have asked.

My niece Sara graduated from Grade 2 last night (a significant graduation, to be sure). She received the Grade 2 Academic Prize, which is the only award handed out for that grade. I am bursting with auntly pride, of course.

This morning, Jeff and I are attending Annie's graduation. The fact that Jeff has to wake up at 7 a.m. is further proof of how much he loves Annie. Jeff is definitely not a morning person.

This afternoon, Sara and I are going to see Mamma Mia. The tickets were my 40th birthday present from my family, and were purchased over six months ago. Sara has been listening to the soundtrack since Christmas and has memorized the lyrics to about half a dozen ABBA songs. I've liked ABBA since high school. Never thought I'd be rockin' to "Dancing Queen" with my 7-year-old niece someday. :-)

Went running in the rain this morning around 6:30 a.m., along University Avenue. I found the forecast of rain over the next few days discouraging but then figured hey, what's a little water? It was actually kind of fun, the rain kept me cool, and the sidewalks were pretty empty. I shortened my run somewhat so had time to get showered and changed in time to leave for Annie's graduation at 7:30.

Tuesday
Jun112002

new shoes







So I got new running shoes yesterday.

Or rather, my first pair of real running shoes in many years. Before then, I had cross-trainers which were supposedly designed for everything from aerobics to walking to occasional running. Everything I've read about running (plus advice from Andrea and Dave), however, has convinced me that it's time to invest the money in decent quality running shoes rather than risk the types of injuries incurred by improper footwear.

I went to The Running Room at Wellington and Yonge. I've visited the store several times before, liked the staff, bought my rain jacket and hip pouch (which holds my water bottle, camera, and MP3 player).

The staff person (henceforward to be referred to as TRG = The Running Guy) asked me how long I had been running, what kind of running I was doing. I had to take off my shoes, get up on a bench, stand straight, then crouch down a bit with my knees bent. Then he had me put my cross-trainers back on and run up and down the store so he could check my gait.

Wow, never had to go through so much grilling to get shoes before! Then again, it was clear that these people took running seriously.

TRG told me (in a very nice way, of course) that I had been running in too small a shoe size, that I needed extra support for my flat feet, that I DEFINITELY shouldn't be running in two-year-old cross-trainers, that I was risking injury. He said my old ones are still fine for walking.

That's why I'm here, I told him. Show me what you've got.





So he started bringing out shoes. I told him that I didn't care what the shoes looked like, as long as they fit me. I suppose I would have balked at flaming-red runners with obscenities embroidered along the sides, but fortunately this didn't seem to be an option.

After I put each pair on, TRG had me run up and down the store. At first I felt somewhat awkward about this, but the other staff ignored me; they were obviously used to this process.

TRG would nix some shoes before I had run even a few steps, saying they weren't a proper fit; others would be put in a Potentials pile.

While I tried out shoes, TRG and I did the Asian bonding thing. I've always noticed a tendency of English-speaking Asians, particularly older ones, to want to know what my ancestry is. Funny, really. If a non-Asian asked me the same kinds of questions ("So where are you from?" "Can you speak Chinese?" "Were you born here?"), I'd be somewhat offended at this coming from a total stranger. Coming from another Asian, however, it's fine.

I never ask these questions, but find I get asked a lot. Back in university, when the campus was teeming with students from Hong Kong, I was also told how odd it was that I had a North American accent. I always thought that was kind of funny.

But I digress.





I finally decided on a pair of shoes in the lower end of price ranges offered, but still more expensive than any other shoes that I own. I wore them home and (of course) went out running right away.

One of my favourite books in the whole world is Dandelion Wine by Ray Bradbury. It's the first book that made me conscious of the power of written language. For me, reading Dandelion Wine was like reading a poem, a tapestry of such vivid imagery and emotionally honest moments from childhood that my own writing felt dry and cliched in comparison. Dandelion Wine was a huge motivator in my desire to become a writer.

Anyway, my favourite scene from Dandelion Wine was when the little boy gets a new pair of running shoes. Bradbury does a wonderful job at conveying the child's sheer joy in the new shoes, and I'm reminded of it each time I buy a new pair of runners.

And yes, I felt a little bit of that when I went running for the first time yesterday with my new shoes. :-) This time I ran all the way out to Ontario Place without stopping, just to see if I could.





I was amused by Bill Sutton's posting yesterday in Blatherchat:



A NUKED Krispy Kreme? Say it isn't so!

You might as well go down to the grocery and buy a cruller and stick it in the microwave, then compare it to a fresh Tim Horton's. Not fair, not fair at all.

Ever had real, boulangerie French bread? One day later - hard as a rock and nasty stuff. On the day of baking - heaven.

We Krispy Kreme defenders demand a recount!




I do admit that I was somewhat disappointed that my first Krispy Kreme experience had to be with a day-old sample. Scott and Amanda Snyder have promised to take me to a Krispy Kreme outlet in California this August, however, so I do reserve the option to change my humdrum attitude towards Krispy Kremes until I've tried one fresh.








Today's Blatherpics:

I took these pictures during our Port Elgin visit this past weekend.










This photo was taken during my morning walk on Sunday.



Craig demonstrating his unique joy in lawnmowing.



One of the amazing quilts that Craig's mom has done. First she took a photo of a nearby lighthouse scene, sketched it onto a piece of cloth, added watercolours, quilted it with different colours of thread.



Other places may have signs advertising student painters and window washers. This is the first "directional drilling" sign I've seen.



Craig leading us on a nature walk.

Monday
Jun102002

morning







The bus ride to Owen Sound on Saturday morning seemed longer than I expected. I think my tolerance for long bus rides has decreased over the years. Everything irritated me during the nearly 4-hour bus ride: the chattering of my neighbours, the annoying squeaking of the chair plastic against the side of the vehicle, the broken seat reclining handle, the way the bus seemed to stop every few miles for some passengers. I tried to sleep but was too uncomfortable.

When did I become such a whiner? Compared to sitting in a canoe in the rain in wet clothes all day (like on our Nahanni trip), the bus ride was luxury! Reminds me of a Monty Python sketch that I have still yet to see but have already memorized because of how often I've heard Jeff and some other friends recite it, where some old geezers escalate in their stories of childhood hardship.

I think I'd far rather spend all day cold and wet in a canoe on the Nahanni River, though, than four hours on the highway in a squeaky bus.





Anyway, it was good to finally get to Craig's parents' place near Port Elgin. Activities consisted of reading, napping, grazing, nature walks, beachcombing, ooblek experiments, sitting around and talking.

Jeff and I have been going up to Craig's Port Elgin gatherings for years now. The group changes each time (we haven't been able to attend every year, either), but the essentials remain the same...no specific agenda, just lounge about and relax.

I love these type of gatherings, where everyone is basically free to do their own thing, but we all keep congregating in the same place for meals and games and re-hashings of the days' events.





Yesterday morning, I woke up at about 7 a.m., around my usual time. I don't sleep in very well, even on weekends. One of the curses of being a Morning Person, I suppose.

As quietly as I could, I slipped outside and went for a walk. The morning sunlight was just beginning to burn off the mist, slanting down through the branches of the trees. I startled a rabbit on the front lawn, or rather we startled each other. Spent a little while wandering along the rocky shore along the water, listening to the birds.

On the way back to the house, I ran into Parki, also out for a stroll. Yay for morning people. :-)








Today's Blatherpics:









Interesting-looking moth on the house where we stayed this weekend.



Roasting marshmallows in the backyard.



Christine and Elspeth.



Parki.

Sunday
Jun092002

port elgin


Port Elgin group



[8:30 pm] Just got home and am braindead tired, so am going to post a few photos in lieu of a regular Blathering. In the photo above, from left to right: Jeff (crouching), Craig, Parki, Elspeth, Andy, Christine, Doug, Jennifer. No, the deer is not real.

Had a WONDERFUL time in Port Elgin...many thanks to our friend Craig for organizing the event (see photo below) and to his parents for letting us use their house for the weekend.


Craig


Below: living room scene. Christine is watching Elspeth jump up off a footstool, Andy's watching Christine, Doug's reading a magazine, Jennifer is wandering out from the kitchen, Jeff and Parki are chopping things in the kitchen. The atmosphere in this photo is exactly what it was the entire weekend: very laid-back, relaxed, comfortable, low-stress. I napped, read a bunch more of American Gods by Neil Gaiman.


living room


As I mentioned in Blatherchat, I did finally get to try a Krispy Kreme. It was pretty good but I didn't find it spectacularly better than Tim Horton's, maybe because it was a day old and was nuked in the microwave.

More on Port Elgin later this week. Hope you all had a great weekend!

Ronnie




And hey, check out this story by Reid's and Luisa's youngest son, Ronnie.


Saturday
Jun082002

post-relay






Short Blather today, sorry. I'm leaving in a few minutes for a 3.5 hour bus ride to Port Elgin to hang out with Craig, Jeff, Parki and some other friends.

Jeff drove up to Port Elgin yesterday evening, and he and Parki visited the Krispy Kreme outlet on the way to pick up some doughnuts for our friends in Port Elgin. Jeff told me on the phone last night that the set-up at the Mississauga outlet was very cool. He has promised to keep one Krispy Kreme for me to try when I arrive this afternoon. Can't wait to finally try my first KK!





Our set at Relay For Life went well last night, though we ended up having to cut several songs because of time constraints, including Viewmaster, I Want To Believe, Twinkle In His Eye, and Neurotic Love Song.

Many thanks to Luisa, Reid, Michael, Ronnie and Luisa's mom for coming to see us last night! One of my very favourite moments was when I was greeting Reid or Luisa with a hug; Ronnie launched himself at one of my knees and hugged my leg and wouldn't let go. He's such an affectionate kid. :-)

This makes them my first non-filk friends who have ever seen Urban Tapestry perform. Even Jeff has never seen us in live performance before.





It was a wonderful event. Much more emotional than I expected; it was wonderful to see so many people out to support cancer research. The Survivors' Lap was especially moving, where anyone who had survived cancer walked a lap around the track while the announcer read out the names of each person. Survivors' ages ranged from children to the elderly, athletes and those who had had limbs removed.

Reid took a ton of photos of our performance, so hopefully I'll be posting next week, and I'll also post more details.








Today's Blatherpics:









Thanks to Reid, Luisa, Michael and Ronnie for coming out to the event!



The Survivors' Lap.



Volunteers at the Artists' CD table.



Allison and Jodi.